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  • The Nothing Week

    My Week of Doing (Almost) Nothing. DISCLAIMER I don’t give advice - Just notes-to-self. This is a trial - I don’t know how far it will go, but the last time I did it, it worked. I just invented The Nothing Week. And, of course, there are many tunes to this. Here, I’m looking at it from a rest and relaxation perspective considering how fast-paced my life is getting these days. Hence, the case for the Nothing Week, which, as the name dictates, is a week to do completely nothing. Completely nothing? Not quite. But I downscale most tasks. First, it doesn’t take away the necessities such as working a full-time job (unless you take time off) or attending classes to get a grade. For me, I’m at a point where I over-optimize most of my free time during the day. Working on a side project. Playing chess. Reading a book. I will always have something planned for my extra time. And while that has its productivity merits, it also has its burnout demerits. I just had an epiphany: As hardworking as I am, most of what I do is self-imposed. “I must do this.” “I must do that.” I realized that I didn’t need to view all my self-imposed commitments as responsibilities, hence why I penned this idea. And from knowing that, I realized two things: Rest is productive. Recharge is productive. After all, you emerge a better, more productive, and energetic person from the rest you just had. And so I thought: "If I could just put off these unnecessary tasks and recharge for a week, that would be great." And what do I get in return? More sleep. More hobby time. Pushed back meetings. Delegated or eliminated micro-tasks. Guilt-and-worry-free for something I think I’d be doing. Lessons I’m learning 1. Rest is necessary. It’s just as crucial as work. Even God rested after creating the world. 2. Rest is productive. You’re energized to tackle more tasks. Think of refueling a car: You refuel it when it’s stationary, not when it’s in motion. Imagine doing so with the engine on. Catastrophe. 3. The unnecessary can wait. Or if possible, deleted. Eradicated. Completely. 4. Peace of mind is the reward. If you’re a naturally hardworking person like me, you deserve to treat yourself to time that’s dedicated to not working hard at all. Ironically, that’s the subconscious reward you’re seeking—Peace of mind. 5. You focus more on what matters. Think: Pareto’s Principle - The 80/20 rule. I’m a huge Pareto fan. “80% of the results come from 20% of the effort.” You’ll want to optimize the little time you have for results. Meaning you focus on the points that matter. 6. It’s never that serious. Nothing ever is when you think about it. The work we do, the things we say, the stakes at hand - They’re seldom that serious. Your 80-year-old self would definitely coincide with that. The things that matter: Your basic needs Living in the present Whether your life made meaning Your relationships - family, friends, and acquaintances. It’s interesting how a simple walk outside will remind you of these. Everything else? Not so serious. 7. You control your time. You can do whatever you want. Even though it’s your ‘nothing’ time, you decide what you want to do even if impromptu. Think Retirement: Why do retirees want to travel the world, go fishing, or visit their grandkids? Because that’s what they decide to do during their free time—their ‘nothing’ time. Same for you: If you have nothing to do, then you might as well do something. Ski trip, travel, cook up a recipe on a whim, attend a concert. You have all the time right now. You might as well use it somewhat. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ 8. I realize what I can control. And I control a lot. Downtime tasks. How I do my work. My interactions with people. And many more. You have 52 weeks a year. 40 if you work full time. Try doing nothing once every four weeks. And see if it works for you. Peace. . . . ~T.K.K {Written during my Nothing Week.} Subscribe to The Weekly Chronicle for more bangers delivered in under a minute.

  • Weekly Wisdom: Volume 3

    My Five Weekly Lessons in Under a Minute. This week The Top 1% Skill You'll never be fully ready. Start now. Macro action, micro problems The Power of Your Mind The Camaraderie of Success 1. The Top 1% Skill I learned this from Dan Koe. We either spend too much time planning or fantasizing about the end result. And too little time executing. Most of the time is lost in the middle. Instead, if we lessen the time between ideation and execution: It hastens progress. It creates momentum. It generates quicker feedback loops. You learn faster. Especially regarding hastening progress, if you're guaranteed success after 1,000 iterations, then you'll accomplish it faster in five years (or less) than you would in ten (or twenty...or more) if you decreased the time between each iteration. You probably won't need the 10,000 hours of mastery anyway—story for another day. But for now, decrease the time between ideation and execution, and watch the magic grow. 2. You'll never be fully ready. Start now. The perfect time doesn't exist. You'll never be perfectly ready. You don't wait for the right time to act. The time is now. Instead, act now and make the most out of it. Or more figuratively, Instead of waiting for the perfect time, start now, and make the action perfect. Of course, "perfect" will never exist. But the more you execute, the higher the chances your work looks like perfection. Maybe not to you, but to others, it's a masterpiece. That's when you know you're winning. You'll never be fully ready. So start now. 3. Macro Action, Micro Problems Seneca said: "We suffer more in imagination than in reality." And because of this imaginary suffering, we create imaginary problems blown out of proportion. Hence, macro problems. With micro action. (Ironically, the only action here is worrying, which is more inaction than not.) Once you start taking action, you'll realize the problem wasn't as big of a deal as you first thought. After all, the first step is always difficult. After that, everything becomes simpler. Action and problems are inversely proportional. More action equates to less problems, and vice versa. Macro action, micro problems. 4. The Power of Your Mind I first heard of this idea from David Goggins, and I agree: Your mind is your greatest asset. Metaphorically, your mind is your greatest weapon in this world. Because if you can control your mind, you can master anything you set it to. I'm currently piecing together a primer that demonstrates the power of the mind - it touches on some points from Think and Grow Rich, Manifest Anything You Can Imagine, and Earl Nightingale's lectures. But in the interim, understanding how your mind can navigate you during your most dire circumstances is crucial. Figures why they talk about mindset being everything. The toughest battle is the one you have with your mind. Win that one first, and you'll win any hurdle life throws at you. Master your mind. The rest will follow. 5. The Camaraderie of Success Self-explanatory. Until next time. . . . ~T.K.K Subscribe to The Weekly Chronicle for weekly bangers delivered in under a minute.

  • Weekly Wisdom: Volume 2

    My Five Weekly Lessons in Under a Minute. The Rule of 36 You attract your own kind. You are stronger than you imagine. You have so much potential it's scary. Luck doesn't exist. You create your own. 1. The Rule of 36 People like instant gratification. They like seeing instant results. Quick money. Fast money. And the likes. If you achieve those in that short timeframe, consider yourself lucky. But from what I've seen, the real magic happens at around month 36. 36 straight months of focused daily consistent effort toward actualizing your dreams. Worst case: A (bi)weekly cadence. But the shorter the difference in iteration, the quicker your feedback loops, and the more metrics you can track your progress toward your goals. And by 36 months, it's not a habit anymore - it's a lifestyle. It takes one day to take action. It takes seven days to create momentum. It takes 14 days to create consistency. It takes 30 days to build a habit. It takes 60 days to build a character. It takes 90 days to build a lifestyle. You already have a lifestyle in three months. What about 36? 2. You attract your own kind You attract your character. If you're a good person, you attract other good people. And the converse is also true: If you're a bad person, you attract bad people. But here's the kicker - you don't just attract people; you attract characteristics. You attract values. You attract vibes. If you do good unto the world, you attract good people who also do good unto you. Similarly, if you do bad to the world, you also attract bad people who also do bad stuff...and they do it to you too, and that hurts. Be yourself. Be a good person. Be a person of value. And you'll attract the right people. Because you attract your own kind. 3. You are stronger than you imagine. There will be setbacks, Mishaps Inconveniences Tragedies Setbacks Traumas And other perils along your way. You will feel devastated. Lost. Uncertain. Hopeless. Guilt. Like you don't know what you're doing. You will feel many things. But one thing for sure is that you will rise up above it, no matter what. You will rise up again, more formidable than before, and more concrete than ever. And the fact that the setback still didn't stop you is a testament to your strength. You're stronger than you think you are Give yourself credit for that. You're stronger than you imagine. 4. You have so much potential it's scary. I wish people knew how much potential they possess in their minds - it's not even funny. I'm currently penning something on how the secret to success begins in the mind. And the good thing about human beings is that we all possess it—our own innate minds to cultivate our grounds for success. "If you're human, you have a mind." ~Carerra. However, it's sad that many people are trudging through life for life's sake. Wake up Go to school for school's sake Go to work for work's sake Return home for home's sake Eat Sleep Repeat It's sad, to be honest. It's like a pot that simmers but never boils. Living...but not really living. If only people knew how much potential they had, then life would be much more meaningful. Just know that however much you have of it, it's scary...in a good way. And if you do realize it, good. Use it. 5. Luck doesn't exist. You create your own. I'm starting to believe that luck in the presence of hard work doesn't exist. If you work hard enough to get guaranteed results - which, in many cases, you do - then luck is not a factor. Rather than being lucky, you were well prepared for the right opportunity and skillfully maneuvered it with the resources you had to your advantage. It's not luck when you put in 10,000 hours throwing 10,000 career shots, 300 of which won you games. It was all sheer hard work and intense preparation. "The harder you work, the luckier you become." ~Carl Karcher Successful people master this. They work hard enough to increase their luck surface area. They work hard. And thus, produce their own luck. They create their own luck. I go more in-depth here. . . . ~T.K.K Subscribe to The Weekly Chronicle for more bangers in less than a minute.

  • The Cheat Code to Life

    How to Win Life - 1st Edition Preface This was originally meant to be, "How to cultivate self-respect," but after reading it a bunch of times, it looked more like a life cheat code. This is a first edition - I'm pretty sure more will come as I grow older (and hopefully wiser.) I’m likely also going to make this a personal primer. Idk — we’ll see. I'm only 23. Without further ado, let's go. Enjoy. 1. Set your values. Have a creed. Have your core values. Faith Love Vision Family Valiance Courage Integrity Dexterity Hardwork Community Determination Et cetera Whatever works for you. Don't negotiate them. They are non-negotiable. Don't compromise them. Have a personal philosophy by which you live. The older you grow, the more personalized your philosophy. Understand it's susceptible to change as you progress throughout life. 2. Have a mission. Set goals. Big goals. Audacious goals. Life-changing goals. Goals that change who you are as a person for the better. Find an obsession. "Obsession isn't something you tell yourself to start—it's something you force yourself to stop." ~Zach Pogrob. Exploit a niche. There are millions around you. Play the long game. Play it long enough to see your magnified Future-You and start living by their standards. If you don’t know what to do (yet), that’s okay. Try. Keep trying. Try different things. Multiple things. Because by not trying different things, you will never realize what you like vs what you don’t like. And when you do realize what you like, your skills can always transfer to that in one form of another. (Think: Transferrable Skills.) A man on a mission cannot be stopped. Find something that will give your life meaning. Set a lifelong goal for you to achieve within your lifespan. Visualize it everyday. Pursue it daily, no matter the cost. 3. Do hard things. Do the things people are scared to do. Math Chess Fitness Marathons Consistency Public speaking Personal Finance Hard Conversations Etc. Your 2.0 Self is on the other side of accomplishing something hard. Life is hard already. Choose your hard. Good habits are hard. Bad outcomes are also hard. Refer to no. 8. 4. Put yourself first. You can't fill from an empty cup. Put yourself first, then you'll be in a better place to assist others. "I'll take care of me for you if you take care of you for me." Jim Rohn. You have to be at your full capacity first before being able to help others. How can a car take you places if it's on E? Of what use is a tired camel if it can't carry you? How can you take a 3-hour call when your phone is on a five-minute charge? You're not selfish for taking care of yourself and putting your needs first. If you don't respect yourself, no one will respect you. And no one will do that for you. If you put yourself down for others, they likely won't respect you or the help you give them. 5. Set your standards. Aim high. Don't settle for less. Have your boundaries. Raise your bare minimum. Know your worth. Else, people will disrespect you. Whatever your goal is, add 20% to it, then add 20% on top of that 20%. Shoot for the galaxies, not the stars. Everyone can see the stars - few notice the galaxies. 6. Be self-accountable. People don't like hearing, "It's on you." Back your words up with actions. Few people master this. You should ensure that you are indeed who you say you are. Do the things you said you were gonna do when you said you were gonna do them. If your alarm is for 7:00 AM, wake up at 7:00 AM. If you were to attend a meeting at this time, attend the meeting at this time. If you have three tasks to complete that day, complete those three tasks that day. Own up, accept responsibility for your shortcomings, and make amends. Fewer people do this. 7. Take care of yourself. A more subtle way to self-care. Prioritize all aspects important to you. Physically. Don't drink. Don't smoke. Proper nutrition. Rest when needed. Work out regularly. Get a good night's sleep. Prioritize physical fitness. Protect your health and well-being. Drugs aren't good. Stay away from them. Financially. Have a good income. Live under your means. Ensure positive cashflow. Secure your investments and retirement accounts. Career. Find your Ikigai. Find your mission. (See no. 1.) Corporate isn't for everyone. Neither is entrepreneurship or freelance. Do what fits you. Ensure you're doing something meaningful with your life—a meaningful job. It's what you do in these 80-or-so God-given years that brings fulfillment to your life. Socially. Have mentors. They're a cheat code. Have a support system. Amass a personal board of advisors. Keep your family and friends close. You need the right people in your circle. Gather a tribe of soldiers and kinsmen around you, not leeches. Nurture the right relationships because life is 80% relationships. Spiritually. Practice your faith. Live it. Make yourself right with God. See no. 13. Ensure you're spiritually attuned with yourself. It's an eternal battle between the flesh vs the spirit. Mentally. Read good books. Have positive affirmations. Be careful what you feed your mind. Your self-talk. The apps you scroll. What you see everyday. The media you consume. The people you surround yourself with. Et cetera. Stress isn't worth it. Don't bag it. Don't stress yourself. It shortens your lifespan. Practice gratitude - It could've been worse. Your mental health is more important than you think. It won't matter in three months. Don't fuss about it now. 8. Practice self-awareness. Know your limits. Be brutally honest with yourself. Understand what you can and cannot do. If you can do something, do it. If you can't, don't. Let others know upfront what your capabilities are. Self-awareness is a good pivot point to start challenging your limits. See no. 9. Self-awareness will come at the cost of disappointing others because you won't fulfill their expectations of you. That's okay so long as you fulfill your own. Check no. 10. 9. Challenge yourself everyday. Question everything. Challenge your limits. You are your limits. Raise them. Challenge your beliefs. Evolve first before life forces you to. Relocation is a good life hack - It literally forces you out of your comfort zone. Do the things you said you couldn't do - Things you never thought you could do. If you don't challenge yourself, life will challenge you...and more so beyond your limits. Do the things they said you couldn't. Do it twice; thrice just to make sure, and take pictures. 10. Constantly reflect on yourself. Embrace growth. Embrace learning. Embrace self-mastery. Foster a growth mindset. You're never gonna have it all figured out. That's okay. Nobody does. You're always a work in progress. Accept that. There are always lessons to tell your: 10-year-old self 17-year-old self 34-year-old self 50-year-old self 71-year-old self. Continue reflecting on and learning about yourself. Refer back to no. 8. 11. Have a life of your own. Have your pastimes. Live life on your terms. Have your own hobbies. Be unique. Be authentic. Be yourself. Everyone else is taken. It's okay for others to ridicule you for not going out Friday night and choosing instead to stay in by the fireplace and reading a good book. 12. Don't force things. Let things be. Embrace stoicism. Don't force relationships. Don't force circumstances. Don't force life to happen. What will happen will happen. The people who will stay will stay. The universe repels neediness - neediness is unattractive. It's repulsive. Don't force anyone to stay in your life who has clearly shown they don't want to. 13. God above all. Acknowledging the presence of God puts you in your place. At any moment, your achievements could be wiped out in the blink of an eye if God says so. When you read the Bible, you will relate to many characters whom God led just like you: Judges: Gideon, Deborah, Samson, etc. Prophets: Moses, Elijah, Jeremiah, etc. You're walking the same path as the men and women of the past. Put God first. TLDR Set your values. Have a mission. Do hard things. Put yourself first. Set your standards. Be self-accountable. Take care of yourself. Practice self-awareness. Challenge yourself everyday. Constantly reflect on yourself. Have a life of your own. Don't force things. God above all. . . . ~T.K.K Subscribe to The Weekly Chronicle for weekly bangers delivered in less than a minute.

  • "I don't have to. I get to."

    Transforming responsibility into privilege in three words. Last week was a huge epiphany in pursuing my projects and passions. My job (Business and Data analysis), my association (Kenyans in STEM Association), and Carerra's Chronicles. And it's easy to get lost in the thick of things. What initially started as a passion or a hobby, if left unchecked, can often become a burdening responsibility. Most of these, I think, are self-imposed simply because "we have to." "I have to write a blog post this week." "I have to do three podcasts next week." "I have to attend my child's recital tonight." "I must pick my kids up from school every other day." "I have to fly out to LA for multiple business meetings." Self-imposed burdens, which, when we fail to achieve, cause some self-deprecation within us. But as I learned last week, it's more of a perspective switch. I look at the things I'm doing and the tasks I have to accomplish, then note one commonality between them— I wanted to do them. I volunteered to do them. And now, I get to do them. That's the big reframe. By switching from "I have to" to "I get to," I notice the privilege in what I do - the work I nearly started taking for granted. Not everybody sings in the choir. Not everyone gets to work for a huge bank. Not everyone has a gym they go to everyday. Not everyone gets to build a STEM association. Not everyone gets to publish a blog in their free time. And so on. By saying, "I get to," I've noticed that I'm grateful for what I volunteered to do. It was fun when I initially wanted to pursue them, and now that I'm pursuing them, I wouldn't say I like that fun to deteriorate under the name of responsibility. Sure, of course, something can scale so big that you'll need multiple functions to operate it, most of which are outside your expertise. Instantly, you think you must do it (or 'you have to'), not remembering why you started—to enjoy it. That would have me beckon in a growth mindset: "I get to enjoy the fruits of my success and share them with someone as well." And with that, instantly, I delegate the miscellaneous tasks to others who get to do them. And just like that, you don't have to lead people - you get to lead people. You get to be a leader and lead others. Also, this is not permission for me to lower my standards and do the bare minimum. If anything, I can't take it for granted that I'm doing these things, and that motivates me to pursue them with the highest enthusiasm possible. I advocate a healthy balance, of course —doing something at your optimum best while still finding the love (or passion) to do it. "I don't have to do this—I GET TO DO THIS." And watch your worldview change. Until next time. Happy Easter. . . . ~T.K.K Subscribe to The Weekly Chronicle for bangers delivered in less than a minute.

  • Weekly Wisdom: Volume 1

    My Five Weekly Lessons in Under a Minute. Intro Hi there! Welcome to my world! I’m starting this Weekly Wisdom series where I share my insights on life ,  business, careers, etc., all from the past week. So grab your coffee, stuff your chocolate bar or favorite snack, and relax on the couch as you explore what my mind is digesting from the previous week. Hopefully you learn something too! And, of course, let’s make this conversational — I would love to hear your thoughts as well. :) 1. If you have people genuinely rooting for you, keep them — they’re rare. True friends are hard to find and harder to keep. If you have friends that genuinely want the best for you, root for your success, and want you to win in life, then keep them close by - your success amplifies their belief in you. And if they believe in you and support you throughout, reciprocate it. It’s Ubuntu, not transactional. Eagles thrive with fellow eagles, not with chickens meddling in front of KFC. Be an eagle and keep your co-eagles close. Fly together. Soar together. Believe together. Live together. Laugh together. Love together. And die together. Because that’s what eagles do best. 2. Don’t dwell on the problem. Dwell on solving the problem. When a problem arises, it’s easy to exacerbate it and avalanche it into an endless corundum of other escalated issues. That, of course, doesn’t work. Never has, never will. However, if you switch to a problem-solver’s mindset, you will levitate towards formulating the solutions that solve what you’re (which you shouldn’t be) complaining about. Stop focusing on the problem. Focus on solving the problem itself. Channel your energy from complaining to eradicating what you’re complaining about. Complaining doesn’t solve the problem. Solving it does. 3. Don’t criticize without offering a solution. Criticize but also offer a solution. The point of (reasonable) criticism is to identify someone’s deficiencies and fill them accordingly. Constructive criticism is an excellent example of this — it shows where to grow and improve. Plus, one or two actionable insights to accompany the feedback for improvement are helpful. Criticism without a proposed solution, however, is as empty as the gap found in the critiqued. 4. Admit your fault when you’re wrong. Stand your ground when you’re not. The fine line between accountability and assertiveness. If you’re doing your job to your ability, you affirm that you did the right thing to your knowledge. (Deciding or executing the task with the limited resources available.) If the outcome was not the intended one, take accountability for it. Own your mistake and make your amends. Also, it's most likely a system error if you did the absolute task but the wrong outcome. Needless to say, it’s not your fault. And ideally, you’ll want to put in an undeniable amount of effort to clarify that it’s not your fault if something fails. Admit when wrong. Stand up when not. Which leads to my final point: 5. If you don’t teach someone how to do a job, don’t get mad at them when they get it wrong. This should be a top Management 101 lesson. You will have the desired outcome for a job - the perfect picture of it. You also acknowledge that you can’t do it all alone. You don’t know it all. The least you could do here is show your subjects your vision, which is why leaders are often visionaries. And if possible, explain the procedure for doing things to them. If you don’t, they will most likely try figuring it out on their own, which often goes only so far. Don’t blame them for the results they brought if you didn’t show them how to do it. I love this Computer Science principle: GIGO — Garbage In, Garbage Out. What you put in, you get out. What you sow, you reap. Put 100, get (at least) 100. Put 0, get 0. Easy. Show them what to do, and you’ll get what you show them to get…with the inverse holding true. Until next week. . . . ~T.K.K

  • Luck Doesn't Exist

    I don’t think luck exists. Here’s why. Or maybe it does...but I refuse to acknowledge it - just a mindset hack. This is a mental model and personal philosophy I’m currently incorporating myself - susceptible to change in the future. I don’t quite believe in the existence of luck in the presence of hard work. Say you work extremely hard at something, dedicating your blood, sweat, and tears to creating an outcome many dream of. And the comments can come in as: “Lucky you.” “Lucky this.” “Lucky that.” And maybe you too fall into that “Was I lucky?” trap again. From what I see, luck derogates the preparation and effort needed to seize and capitalize on the opportunity. Disclaimer As I type this, I fully acknowledge the existence of circumstantial luck—you just happened to be in a better spot than others to achieve your goals. However, I’m referring to consequential luck (or outcome luck), where your efforts—not luck—vindicate your success. And from what I’ve seen, most people with circumstantial luck don’t achieve consequential luck mainly because of one thing—privilege. We move on. Luck Surface Area There’s a concept of Luck Surface Area, pre-eminently used by Jim Collins, and he describes it as “the amount of exposure an individual has to opportunities and resources that can lead to success.” However, I won’t use that definition - I have my own. Back to the first principles: Surface area is the area of a surface. Easy definition. Luck surface area thus becomes your scope of luck - how much luck you can generate and access. Basically, the harder, smarter, more intentional, and more strategic your work is, the greater the chances of luck happening. And hence, the greater your luck surface area. Let’s use an example. The Allegory of the Arrows Say you’re at a shooting range. You have two bows: A simple one and a mechanical one. With your simple bow, you have one arrow. With that arrow, your chances of hitting a bull’s eye are abysmally small. Now, say you have a mechanical bow—handmade, structured, and concretely made. You have 58 arrows, all of which you can shoot simultaneously if you want—your chances of hitting the target become humungously large. You increased your chances of hitting the bull’s eye because you purposefully crafted your bow: You measured the correct dimensions. You sourced the right material. You applied the proper Physics. You created slick arrows. You’ve probably practiced 1,000 times. You’re not lucky if you hit the bull’s eye nine times out of ten. You prepared for it. Now, others will claim you’re cheating - fair game - but were there rules to the game to begin with? And if there were, then in the game of success, the rules are either: Meant to be broken, or Redefined I’ve learned that successful people mostly play by their own rules, even if it means breaking some of them. They are the mavericks of society who aren’t afraid to challenge the norm to achieve their dreams. And one of those rules is to work ridiculously hard that success becomes inevitable. And when you’re in that state of hardwork, you increase your chances of luck. Simply because you can’t lose. In fact, I like to twist it this way: You don’t need luck—luck needs you. Luck needs you to stay relevant. The Relevance of Luck Interestingly, I learned this from a popular figure. First, some got extremely lucky where the effort doesn’t justify it: gamblers, crypto pumps, excessive risk-takers, etc. These folks skew the numbers against the commoners’ odds, making the latter dislike them…and, thus, any following sense of “luck.” When you think about it, it’s something popular in the online guru culture; many “gurus” are likely to host a $25,000 mastermind course, which, counterintuitively, earns more than what got them rich in the first place. However, these phenomenons lack one thing: The skills and character that necessitate their success. (I’ll give a parable on this soon.) Regardless, they took the shortcut to success. And as far as success is concerned, there are no shortcuts. And so, by that merit, they haven’t succeeded. They only succeed when they go through what it really takes to succeed. The dirty work. The failed attempts. The late nights and early mornings. The empty fridges and cold floors. Everything that validates the success they have today - they skipped that. To Jim Rohn’s analogy, a duck will always be a duck even if it convinces itself (and others) it’s an eagle simply because it’s in eagle school. That’s why, despite the quick windfall, 70% of lottery winners are likely to declare bankruptcy within three to five years. Re-enter Luck Surface Area It can be argued that most successful people got lucky at some point - no doubt about that. However, they determined their luck and how often they would get lucky. Or rather, they capitalized on their Luck Surface Area. I learned from Alex Hormozi that the more times you do stuff and the more iterations you make, the luckier you become simply because you increase your chances of success by +1 each iteration. You’re increasing the likelihood that, at least by one more trial, you’ll get the big hit. You’ll likely get that one viral video if you post 1,000 times than you do 10. You’ll likely close a sale if you cold-call 1,000 times more than you do 10. You’ll likely return 750% from one investment as a VC firm if you invest in 1,000 startups than you do 100. (Andreessen Horowitz and Y Combinator as examples.) And so on. I like how Hormozi sums it: “Volume negates luck.” Back to the successful If someone got extremely lucky and made a fortune from a quick buck, credit to them, even though it’s likely a one-off. But I don’t think it would be considered luck anymore if a person got lucky even seven times along the way - that’s too many chances of (un)intentional luck. A person of that caliber is just built differently. Conclusion And for that, I don’t think you need luck to succeed. Again, I personally dismiss the notion of luck, though that might change in the future. We’ll see. I like intentionality. I like strategy. I like anticipation. And I like preparation. I like being ready, prepared, and qualified for when the right opportunity comes, coupled with the ability to skillfully maneuver the situation to get an ideal (or even better) outcome. That, to me, replaces luck. You work so hard that luck needs you. You create your own luck. . . . ~T.K.K If you like this, definitely subscribe.

  • "As You Walk the Way, the Way Appears."

    Embrace uncertainty and take the first step. One thing I’ve learned looking back is that it’s not all quite clear who we will become in the future. “Who will I become 10 years from now?” “What do I wanna do for the rest of my life?” One probably won’t get these answers instantly…but that’s okay. And if you do, you’re gifted. Sometimes, having faith and taking the first step is all you need to do. Scary as it is, it’s necessary. It likely won’t be the perfect step, but it’s definitely a good first step…and given the circumstances, that’s all that matters. Plus, at least you won’t die…lol. The more steps you take, the more of an identity you develop, slowly finding yourself in this world of chaos and instant gratification. You probably don’t need a final goal in mind—you need faith that you will get somewhere if you just take the first step and make the leap. You try things you think you like. If you don’t like them, okay - you can start over again. No effort is wasted. If you do like them, the better. And the more you figure out what you like and don’t like, the closer you get to your purpose. The likelier you’ll find something you love…and the more your way manifests. And just like my guy Rumi says, “As you start to walk on the way, the way appears.” So start walking on the way today. God bless you. . . . ~T.K.K

  • The Two Kinds of Stubborn

    The two kinds of stubborn; which one are you? Most successful people I know share one quality: They are stubborn. But wait…hold up. Lemme explain. We normally think of “stubborn” as a negative word because we associate it negatively - fair point. But the dictionary definition shows us otherwise. The successful people I know fit the 2nd, 3rd, and 4th definitions of stubborn seen above. They refuse to conform. They refuse to sink into mediocrity. They refuse to fit in when they know they can stand out. They’re the kind of people who would go right because there’s nothing left. I call them Stubborn-Persistent - Persisting to their goals no matter what. Those who fit the first definition of stubborn above are Stubborn-Obstinate. And truth be told, helping these people is futile. Give them the right thing to do - they won’t do it. Advise them on the tips to succeed - they won’t listen. Try convincing them that a product will benefit them - you’re better off grazing a dog. And unfortunately, Stubborn-Obstinate never ends well. They’ll see it for themselves. By definition, I like to think of stubborn in two ways: Stubborn-Obstinate: Refusing to listen to wise counsel and things that will benefit you. Doesn’t end too well in most cases. Stubborn-Persistent: Refusing to bend to others’ declarations of you when you want to achieve this (your dreams), but they tell you otherwise. Staying the track, unrelenting focus. I prefer no. 2. So, given the choice, I prefer stubborn persistence - The art of relentless persistence toward your goals no matter what. However, with all good things, there should also be moderation. After all, don’t let your persistence lead you to obstinance toward your success catalysts - proponents that should vindicate your persistence in the first place. Balance + constant self-analysis = key here. Peace. . . . ~T.K.K An interesting article from 16Personalities - “I’m Not Stubborn, I’m Persistent.”

  • What If You Were on Wikipedia?

    If you were on Wikipedia, who would you be? This was a shower-thought question. "What if I was on Wikipedia?" "Who would the world know me as?" "Who would the internet know me as?" "Who would YOU know me as?" An interesting frame of mind to consider. Starting from Realizations I've had one realization and one epiphany, both of which I feel will massively impact my life to come: Realization: I'm a Generalist - I have multiple interests that intrigue me that I want to dive deeper into - Tech, Finance, Personal Development, Leadership, Entrepreneurship, etc. I have seven facets to self: 8-YO me, 23, 30, 45, 63, and 85-YO me. I also have a Billionaire-self and possibly a centi-billionaire-self coming soon. These frames of mind have made me think more holistically about who I'm becoming since, after all, Life is a state of becoming, not become. ~Madam Pamela. So, to my Wikipedia question, my 30-YO self would answer it best. Who is 30-YO me? 30-YO Me is likely my icon of success in the near future, standing by my success metrics. Having a good (and possibly respectable) job, an accomplished leader, friend to many, loyal to his family, a millionaire, and someone who loves doing what he does best - inspiring others. If I were to think of success, I couldn't think of anyone else besides him: A big brother I never had, a paragon I could look up to. I love that guy; I wanna be like him when I grow up. And good thing is: he is me...in six years. Carerra on Wikipedia If I were to be on Wikipedia, the soonest that would be is at 26. Not saying that will happen; that's just when I would be there soonest. And considering my Generalist self, I have a few platforms that could elevate my self-actualization between now and age 30, all of which could start revealing themselves from age 26. Writer. Carerra's Chronicles is mostly writing, so I'll have invested a lot of time doing that. I'm also imagining expanding to Medium, possibly Quora, and my newsletter in the works. Entrepreneur. I've recently started liking entrepreneurship for its massive potential. I like how you can start something (possibly from scratch) that can influence people's lives at scale and earn a financial return, as is the case for for-profit routes. At the start of my thirties, I see myself doing this with stakes in the tech, finance, education, and fashion industries. We'll see. Investor. Something I pray for is financial prosperity that I can propagate towards bettering the common good, thanks to Andrew Carnegie's Gospel of Wealth. In my early thirties, God willing, I see myself as an angel investor doing some private equity in the Silicon Valley and the East African business community. We'll see. Author. I have three imaginary books in mind, one of which, as of 2030, would be close to publication. I'd hope they become bestsellers for the consequent impact they have on the readers, but for now, c'est un imaginacion. Regardless, being an author is in the books, no pun intended. Podcaster. I want to interview inspirational people, whether academic sages or a fascinating lad I met at a gala Saturday night. I like continuously learning from people; sharing their insights with the world seems fun. Speaker. I've been contemplating for a while now and imagine myself becoming an on-demand motivational speaker. It'd be a fantastic way to disseminate my knowledge and experiences, hoping that I inspire someone, somewhere, someday. CEO of Carerra's Chronicles. Without doubt, this is who I'll become. For now, Carerra's Chronicles is where I share insights on topics that interest me: Tech, Finance, Personal Development, Leadership, etc. Thus, I imagine 30-year-old Me scaling on these interests and laying stake in them. This would be me transitioning from a Generalist to a Polymath - story for another day. Conclusion My 30-YO self is one with diverse interests and beginning to capitalize on them. He's likely to scale Carerra's Chronicles into a holding company to encapsulate his interests. I shouldn't be worried at all about him - he should be worried about me not taking action to exercise my foothold in these domains. Back to me, I think this is me subtly outlining my future plans & goals. Not concrete yet, but this is more like a vivid visualization getting more precise the more I describe it. Otherwise, we'll see what God and the universe have in store for me in the future. For now, I'll let ChatGPT put the icing on the cake. . . . ~T.K.K

  • Think and Grow Rich: The Anomaly

    Napoleon wrote the book...but didn't own the ideas. So...Napoleon Hill wrote "Think and Grow Rich," a timeless book on acquiring limitless wealth in a lifetime while exploring the intersection between personal development, business, finance, and philosophy, amongst other genres. As of 2022, thing's sold 70+ million copies with no signs of stopping. And the author is Napoleon Hill... But he did not own it. He did not own the ideas in the book he wrote. Rather, he wrote them in place of Andrew Carnegie, one of the wealthiest men ever. A bit about Andrew Andrew Carnegie was a Scottish-American industrialist, businessman, and philanthropist who immigrated from Scotland to Pittsburgh, PA, at 12. Andrew was one to revolutionize the US steel industry as we know it today, having built Carnegie Steel Company and sold it to JPMorgan for $303.45M then ($10.67B today.) Through his philanthropy, he advocated for the use of wealth for societal betterment. He was pro-taxes, societal good, and supporting scientific research - documenting all these in his famed 1889 article, The Gospel of Wealth. He is easily remembered as Pittsburgh is a steel city from his endeavors and has Carnegie Mellon University in his memorabilia. Andrew Meets Napoleon In his sunset years, Andrew, alongside his comrades - Henry Ford, Thomas Edison, and John D. Rockefeller - found it illegal to die with their immense information. He needed someone to distill his experiences, tactics, and philosophies and chronologize them. And that someone happened to be 25-year-old Napoleon Hill, a simple journalist working on his dad's local wealth magazine. Andrew believed that anyone could (and still can) succeed with the insights he had, so he took Napoleon under his wing as a mentee and told him to write his thoughts down in chronological fashion. And thus, "Think and Grow Rich" came to be. And in the words of Bob Proctor: "Andrew probably made 50 millionaires over his lifetime; Napoleon Hill made millions of them." Which has me thinking: Mansa, the richest man ever lived - Andrew peaked at no. 3. Story for another day. . . . ~T.K.K You may buy Think and Grow Rich here.

  • I Need Help With Medium

    If you're a seasoned writer or have 500-2000 subs, I need your help. I'm writing this article writing on the fly, by the way. I'm a bit stuck with Medium, having returned to it after a year's hiatus and now wanting to get serious. It'll be a monumental but also fun process where I'll gain insights, make friends, and scale myself along the way. After all, I have everything to gain and nothing to lose. Hence why I'm documenting this journey - to publicly share my thought process and growth for the world to see and for moi to be self-accountable on my journey to success. Read on. Why I need help To begin, I want to scale my writing and online presence meaningfully. For instance, I already have social media (shameless plug: Instagram and LinkedIn), so sites like Medium, Substack, and Carerra's Chronicles are me creating my online library. I'm doing this because I want to build Carerra's Chronicles, my blog where I share my thoughts on topics that interest me. That building will come from having an audience that validates your credibility. And to build that audience, I must have a platform. And my platform is Medium. Hence why I need help. My history with Medium I first joined Medium in 2019 when I liked it for its intellectual community of avid readers and writers - sharing ideas and creating meaningful connections. I then stinted at writing during the pandemic through 2021. The results were manifesting, but school got in the way, so priorities shifted. Nothing changed my liking for the platform; I still like the community for the ideas shared and the fact that anyone can be celebrated if they put in the work. ('Should take that advice myself.) So, right now, in 2024, I'm getting back in. I've admittedly lost some steam, but I'm trying to build on it and regain my writing momentum. Up to here, what are your best Medium practices, especially for starting out? 'Would love to hear them! :) Where I'm going with this First, writing is an excellent skill to have - adored and admirable. And as Dan Koe says, writing is the best skill to have as it is the basis of everything. So at the absolute worst, I'll be an evolved writer. Second, to continue writing for writing's sake. Playing the infinite game with word on paper but not play Scrabble. Third, building an online community of like-minded individuals from whom I can learn and to whom I can share. Fourth, to scale my audiences online - on Medium, Substack, and my social media, and to build Carerra's Chronicles. Fifth, in the long run, Medium would be my online library, which, hopefully, for decades to come, will continue sparking the messages and lessons I've learned from the 21st century. Conclusion So that's how things are looking like so far. I have big plans and a long way to go, so cheers to me again for making it to my starting point. I'll need help and possibly all the help I can get. So, if you're an experienced writer of any kind, I'd love to learn from you. This is me putting myself out there by publishing my thought process online, especially since I know my brand will grow monumentally, God willing. I'll look back on this article and say, "These were the days." Meantime, I hope you enjoy the few articles below on where I'm at. . . . ~T.K.K

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